Recently, a friend spoke of something called Pascal’s Wager. It goes something like this. A lady is on her deathbed. She’s never believed in God’s existence before, but with her death near, she wagers she might as well believe. Either she’s right and will live in heaven forever, or she’s wrong and her conscious self simply comes to an end.
This line of reasoning is strange to me and, I believe, fatally flawed. Let’s consider a second story, inspired by the many times that that the church is called the bride of Christ (2 Cor 11:2, Eph 5:25-27, Rev 19:7-9).
Imagine a man proposing to a woman. The man loves the woman and wants to share the fullness of his love, beauty, and goodness with her, lavishing her with extravagant gifts. The man has given sacrificially to her, even at great pain to himself. Yet to him, this is nothing compared to the joy if they were to be wed.
Now, imagine a few possible responses to the man’s proposal:
- The woman responds by saying that she might as well believe he exists since he offers such nice things. The man is befuddled. I asked you to marry me, yet you think simply by intellectually deciding I exist, that this somehow is the same? Many people exist, yet you aren’t automatically wed to them simply by affirmation of that belief.
- The woman says she’ll marry him because she wants the gifts, but she asks if he’d mind too much if she lived in another man’s house. She’ll visit at least twice a year at Christmas and Easter, and sometimes she’ll give him a call, in particular, if she needs something. No way, thinks the man. If you are my wife, I will not share you with another man!
- The woman says, “I do,” and experiences everything that it means to be a wife. She experiences the full extent of his love, beauty, and goodness and in return loves making herself beautiful, inside and out, for her true love. It is a beautiful circle of undying love.
I believe that Pascal’s Wager’s fatal flaw is simply in an improper diagnosis of the offer. “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved” (Acts 16:41 NIV). To believe that Jesus is Lord is to believe that he is the one ultimately in charge of your life (i.e. “Lord”). Looking at imperfect people in authority over others, the concept of Jesus as Lord could be terrifying to some, but then we see Jesus laying down his life, the greatest act of love (John 15:13). We see him healing diseases (Mark 1:34) and giving rest to the weary (Matt 11:28). And we are also given the analogy of Jesus as the groom and the church as the bride. So we know that this lordship is one of beautiful sacrificial love, not of fear.
One might argue that the verse merely speaks of belief, not of a full commitment such as a wedding vow requires. However, we know from the book of James that faith that does not result in corresponding action is no faith at all. Imagine if I say that I believe that the air in the room is safe and yet hold my breath for fear of poisonous gas. Clearly, my belief is useless. Now, there is certainly nothing wrong with seeking evidence; seeing that the person next to me is breathing the air and still alive would be helpful evidence, for example. But if I say I believe one thing but act as if that thing were not true, then clearly I am a lier.
I believe that God is calling us into a beautiful and deep relationship. He knows we won’t fully understand in our sin-affected bodies, so he gives us tangibles as a mere taste. To borrow an analogy from C.S. Lewis, imagine a young boy who says, “Ew, yuck!” in seeing his parents kiss. At this point, he prefers a piece of chocolate to marriage because he has not yet matured to the point where the joys of sex and intimacy make any sense to him. In the same way, we may reject intimacy with God simply because we don’t realize that such intimacy is greater than the mere “chocolates” we experience here in this world. Yet God has given us glimpses, such as marriage and sex, to help us begin to understand.
Like the sun, God is a life giving source, yet approach him as our bodies are currently, and we could not live. God’s holiness and glory are too great. That is, of course, why God took our form in Jesus; he reached down to us because we could not reach up to him. And it is why he sent his Spirit to live in us. Yet, we still long to see God in all his glory, something that will not be possible until our bodies are made new (1 Cor 13). Until then, we are like a Jewish bride awaiting her groom; a marriage legally binding but not yet consummated.
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